Letting it all out

When I start to realise where I am at, and who I am at with, it makes me ponder how can I maximise my relationships to their full potential? Does that mean that I can become a comprehensive person?

To become comprehensive, complete, living life to the absolute full, pushing your limits always trying to be “going somewhere” in life, is that what we should be doing?

But what happens about those times, when you are doing all of that, and then there is a stone in the road that we trip over? Like we start to unintentionally mess stuff up, whatever it may be.

It happens to me a lot, I may try to help out and sort things out with people, but end up messing things up more than what they were, has that ever happened to you?

I’m sure it has, we always try to save the day, and come across as a “good guy or girl” but go about things the wrong way.

Sometimes its good to let a certain issue brew on its own, and sometimes its good to go in there with correct motives and see what you can do.

Nobody wants a sore loser or a person, who thinks they are always right. People want a leader, someone to look to in a time of need, someone to direct them and guide them.

Many people don’t have that in their lives and go about just hoping someone else will do the dirty work or cleaning up issues amongst friends or whatever. The question is, could you be that person? Will you be the one to go up to the “suspects” and give them a piece of your mind?

It takes courage and audacity to go up to someone and tell them what they are doing is wrong and that they are hurting other people. I’ve had to do that more than once in my life, but sometimes it has to be done.

The Relient K song “Let it all out”, depicts it beautifully, it talks about being scared to find out, what this life’s all about. This life is about relationships, its how you life your life and what you make of it that counts.

“I know that this will hurt, but if I don’t break your heart, then things will just get worse” shows that sometimes if we don’t act when things are in the kindergarten stage then it will be really hard later on!

This doesn’t mean go and confront your worst enemies from the word go, it means that to suppress an issue and not talk about it, doesn’t mean its gonna magically disappear and we all know that, so guys, girls sort it out!