Here is a comment I found on a site http://attherighthand.net its really awesome
God gets no glory when we say things like; “I am so worried about thus and so,” “I am afraid this or that will happen,” “ I do not believe I can do all things,” “I just can’t do it”, “I have this wrong with me,” “ I'm so sick I do not know if I will ever get better,” “God healed me of this but I still have this wrong with me,” I am sick, tired, afraid, scared, worried, lonely, crazy, fearful, and bad always happens to me. When we talk and we use these words in a our conversation, God gets no glory in them. You give the devil all the praise. Because Christ came and paid the price for all these things and you do not acknowledge the fact that He did. No matter what you might think God’s glory comes in goodness. All things come together for good to those who love the Lord. But God gets glory for the good not the bad. God’s glory comes in the resurrections. God gets no glory from crucifixion. Crucifixion is the devils way of saying I rule can you not see that?
So actually do that and listen to that.